Thursday, November 12, 2009

The Fabulous life of me cont...

This week in my fabulous life it wasn't so crazy thank goodness.
11/9 Monday, quiet day thinking oh my life is calming down, yea
11/10 Tuesday oh not so quiet, it was observation for parents at dance, wow what a treat! Zarley couldn't have been more poorly behaved. She butted in line she pulled peoples hair she interrupted, very embarrassing, Tiffany said she isn't always like that but wow what a treat. A little later we are talking about the fact that she has a Dr. appt the next day, big mistake she flipped out. Screaming and yelling in her little raspy voice, " I am not going to the Dr. ever again never never again. No one is looking at my tonsils you stupid butt@$@# I am not going" all while throwing things around. Such a treat.
11/11 wed Not much better. Cute Carlye offers to take her to backyard adventures with her, then last minute also takes Owen (thanks Carlye your the best). When I arrive to pick them up to head to the E.N.T. what to my surprise but a flip out from Zarley, it can't be she doesn't do this. (ha Ha ). So she cries all the way to the Dr. and then has to be carried into the office. Now we are seeing the doctor, she isn't flipping out but she isn't cooperating. My sweet Owen offers to have his looked at so then Zarley will let the physician asst. look, great news she needs her tonsils out. Wahoo right! a week or so of Zarley miserable can't wait. Oh gee I wonder how much this will set us back. What more good news they will take out the last tube that's been in there for 3 years while she is under, Fantastic that shouldn't add much to our bill right. Would you like cash for that? Now the actual Dr. is in a male have I mentioned she isn't really fond of males. I have to hold her for him to do the exam, life is so wonderful.. So we leave and she decide to inform us that she is not having surgery. Well this ought to be a fun few weeks before it happens she is already stressing. Now on our way home she decides she is hungry and she wants Ihop, and is having a screaming fit because we are not going. hmm shocker. Later Tiffany is paying Winter for some teaching she has done and Zarley decides that she wants some money $79.00 to be exact another fit ridiculous fit for $79.00. Where the hell did this number come from? I have no idea. Also Xavier not feeling to well and just wants me to hold him all day, that really makes for a productive day.
11-12 Mostly a quiet day at first, a few fights with friends and some evil yelling and mean talk,so unlike her. Later Xavier is crying still not feeling up to par and she tells him to be quiet unless he wants her to break his arm? Are you kidding me where does this stuff come from. She is kicking and screaming at the door because I won't let her in,don't mind its 5:00 and I'm finally taking a shower for the day, apparently I didn't clear that with the boss. Now the meltdown is because she wants ice cream for dinner and I am the worst mom ever, how dare I. Then she tells me she just want to have a bad night, why I ask her, because she just wants to. Oh OK then. We actually ended on a fairly good note. Oh to live another day, I wonder what is in store for us tomorrow?

5 comments:

dan and audrey said...

she kills me! maybe just try showering her with love and cheesy baby talk... it works for Annie and makes her laugh instead of cry and whine! I know Zar is a little more difficult then Annie but it might be worth a try...

Kerry said...

I'm sorry :o(

I wonder if things will get better once the tonsils are out.

Christenson's said...

I think Kerry is right I wonder if she does not get adequate sleep with her tonsils being so big etc, and that is part of the easy melt downs.....Its also has she deals with frustration and gets attention I think too.... this too will pass I'm sure and that strong personality will take her so far in life!! I bet she will be an amazing person when she grows up!! I love Zarley Binks

Christenson's said...

I meant how

Carlye Momma said...

lol!!! thanks for the laugh here sugar! I'm sure at the time it doesn't seem funny but I LOVE how you write about it. I think every child goes through their "stubborn" phases. What can I do to help? She and Owen were really fantastic at Backyard Adventures. I loved every second of it. I was always scared of surgery...I can imagine how scared she must be. How did she like her first day back to school. Nice by the way pulling into our street. I didn't even realize it was you until I totally started getting all annoyed like "come ON already...let's get a move on people...SHEESH!" lol! One of the many reasons why I love ya mama! Zarley is a wonderful little girl, days like that with my boys I totally cry once they're asleep because I feel bad they had such a bad day with me. I feel your pain sister! Hey how bout I write you a novel for a comment hmmmm??? check THAT off your list.